Friday, August 19, 2022

Important First Steps for End-of-Life Planning

 

Of all the difficult discussions about money, perhaps none is as difficult to have as the one about end-of-life planning.  Talking to your adult children about your eventual death (or to your aging parents about their eventual death) is likely painful for all parties to the conversation.  According to one study, only 46% of adult Americans have a will; and I suspect even fewer have had an adequate discussion with their family about their wishes for after they die.

I’m not going to dwell on the very good reasons that most every adult should have a will.  Crafting that document might be an emotionally trying experience for many.  So let me aim at something simpler: updating your beneficiaries and the titles to your property.

While a will is typically the document that spells out the final wishes of an individual for the distribution of his estate, it is not the only such document or even the most important one in many cases.  Did you know, for example, that the beneficiaries you have named for your 401(k) account will get that money after you die, regardless of what your will might stipulate?   In other words, a beneficiary designation trumps the will.  This is true for other assets, too, such as an insurance policy.

This surprises many people, but there are some huge advantages to this.  Perhaps the biggest is the fact that this allows the 401(k) account to escape going through the probate process.  That legal process can take a year or longer, preventing timely distribution of the estate assets to the surviving family or other persons named in the will as beneficiaries.  Moreover, by falling outside probate, the money is not usually subject to any probate taxes the state may assess.

If you are put off by the thought of end-of-life planning, then just take the first baby steps and make sure you have up to date beneficiary designations for your retirement accounts.

And retirement accounts are not the only assets you can keep out of probate and still leave for the person or person you want to have them.  In Virginia where I reside, as well as in many other states, you can also:

·         Make a bank account payable on death to a named individual(s).  The person has no access or right to the account until all regular owners of the account have died.  This might be especially useful for a family member who will be your executor and responsible for paying off any creditors.

·         Have a transfer-on-death title for a motor vehicle.  It entails a small fee to issue a new title, and the vehicle cannot have a lien on it.

·         Have a transfer-on-death deed for your home.  Again, it requires a modest fee to issue a new deed.

·         Transfer ownership of securities to a survivor upon your death.  Check with your broker on how to do this.

·         Insurance policies: don’t make your estate the beneficiary of your life insurance policy.  That ties the money up in probate.  Make it payable instead to the people who will have to cover your funeral expenses (just a suggestion).

So for a typical boomer like myself, his assets are largely bank accounts, retirement accounts, vehicles, and a home; and he can keep all of them out of the probate process (in Virginia and many other states), saving hassle and money for those left behind.

Just updating a will after a major life event (e.g. a divorce) is not enough.  I’ve seen the very sad results of someone dying without having updated titles to property and beneficiaries, leaving a current spouse without a home or retirement funds while an ex-spouse got it all. 

A few simple steps for those who don’t want to think about their own mortality, but so important.  Now get to it.

Until next time,

Roger

“It is better to go to a house of mourning than to go to a house of feasting, for death is the destiny of everyone; the living should take this to heart.” Ecclesiastes 7:2 NIV*

*Scripture quotations taken from the Holy Bible, New International Version® NIV® Copyright © 1973, 1978, 1984, 2011 by Biblica, Inc.™  Used by permission.  All rights reserved worldwide.

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