Monday, December 23, 2024

Imperfect Though It Is

 

Oddly enough, introvert that I am, I’ve occasionally had a desire to join a book club.  I enjoy reading; and being able to share ideas and discuss with others what I have read—especially after having read a really interesting book—sometimes holds some appeal for me.

So when I was looking through the local Parks & Recreation department’s brochure of programs for this winter, I was intrigued to see they now have an active book club.  I read further.  Their reading list is novels and personal development/psychology books.  Okay, deep-six that idea.

Self-help books do not make my personal reading list.  The idea of reaching perfection in some area of life through a step-by-step process seems so formulaic, so unrealistic.  I’m human.  I’m imperfect.  And I don’t foresee that changing while I inhabit this earth.   I have as much disdain for this genre of books as I do for “Christmas letters.”

 I’m sorry if you are one who sends out such letters to your friends during the holidays and my sentiments on the subject offend you; but the brag-laden letters that are meant to pass for Christmas greetings just come across shallow and empty to me.  I’m pretty sure the last twelve months have not been the epitome of unmitigated happiness and uninterrupted success for the senders and their families that nearly every Christmas letter I’ve received portrays.  None tells about the heartache, pain, sickness, divorce, depression, financial struggle, addiction, or any of the other maladies that mar the human experience, including theirs. 

That is why I enjoy Kate Bowler’s writings.  Kate, an associate professor of the history of Christianity at Duke University Divinity School, was diagnosed at age 35 with a life-threatening cancer.  She has written about her struggle to conquer the dread disease and gone on to be a New York Times best-selling author: Everything Happens for a Reason and No Cure for Being Human.  You can tell just from the titles that she is on the other end of the spectrum from those pathway-to-perfection books.

This month I’m reading the devotional book she authored with Jessica Richie, Good Enough.  And for my Christmas post this year I share the “Blessing for a Joyfully Mediocre Journey” with which she opens the book.

Blessed are you

who realize there is simply not enough

--time, money, resources.

 

Blessed are you

who are tired of pretending that raw effort is the secret to perfection.

It’s not.  And you know that now.

 

Blessed are you

who need a gentle reminder that

even now, even today,

God is here,

and somehow,

that is good enough.

 

Wherever you are in life’s journey, whatever hurdles have tripped you up in 2024, and no matter how many lie ahead—seen and unseen—may Christmas remind you that you are not alone.

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year, however imperfect each may be for you.

Roger

“They shall call his name Emmanuel, which being interpreted is, ‘God with us.’” Matthew 1:23

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